- Marry someone you can grow with
- You may be a grown up but if you are not grown inside you will be difficult to relate with
- Let your growth together as a couple be holistic. Grow spiritually, emotionally, mentally, socially, sexually and financially. Don’t just focus on one aspect
- It is frustrating to be married to someone who has no personal hunger for growth. Growth is first personal before it manifests as a couple
- Sometimes troubles will come in your marriage to cause you two to grow in patience, communication and teamwork. Embrace challenges. Couples that have grown together handle challenges better
- When you don’t see growth in your marriage, it is easy to give up on it. Growth encourages more effort and investment
- Your spouse might be more grown in some areas than you, be willing to learn
- You might be more grown in some areas than your spouse, be willing to teach
- No marriage is perfect, but what you two should be aiming at is growth
- If you don’t grow as a couple then being parents will overwhelm you
- The more you celebrate the growth in your marriage rather than what is wrong in your marriage, the stronger your marriage will become
- Appreciate the growth your spouse makes no matter how small to encourage him/her. It is a process, not an event
- When you are working on your own personal growth you will not be jealous or insecure about the growth of your spouse’s career or financial gain
- For any marriage to grow it needs deliberate watering, nurturing and weeding. It won’t happen by accident
- You both grow faster and more united when you have a joint vision
- Don’t try and copy the same growth of other couples. Each couple is unique
- As you grow as a couple, your preferences and patterns will change; you may not like the same music, the same gifts, the same destination spots you used to when younger; but love should be a constant
- In case you two do fall financially, through bad choices, veer away from God or things collapse or seem to be coming to an end; together come back up. Every couple has storms. Sometimes the growth after the fall is greater and stronger. Don’t give up, keep walking together
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