Monthly Archives: July 2017
RATED 18 YEARS AND ABOVE!!!
MATURED MINDS ONLY!!!
MESSAGE FROM LAGOS STATE UNIVERSITY TEACHING HOSPITAL (LUTH)
Please let your wife know about this,,This is a serious caution from medical practitioners [LUTH] to all female beings be it infant, baby girl, ladies, mothers; cancer of the vagina is all over pls avoid washing your vagina with soap, wash with only water, there is a particular chemical in soap generally that is very dangerous and possibly causes cancer of the vagina, cases of cancer of the vagina is all over most of the general hospitals so be aware of this important message. If you have feelings for others kindly pass this message to others that are important to you.
⭕ 56 Girls Died Because Of Using Whisper, Stay free Etc.
⭕ Don’t use One Single Pad 4 d Whole Day B’coz Of The Chemical Used in Ultra Napkins Which Converts Liquid into Gel…it Causes Cancer in Bladder & Uterus. So Plz Try To Use Cotton Made Pads And if You Are Using Ultra Pads, Plz Change it Within 5 Hours, Per Day, At least. If The Time is Prolonged The Blood Becomes Green & The Fungus Formed Gets inside The Uterus & Body.
⭕ Plz don’t feel shy 2 forwd this msg 2 all girls nd even boys so that they can share with their wives N friends, whom they care for.
Kick Off “Breast Cancer”.
🔺Nurse Ur Baby.
🔺Wash Ur Bra Daily.
🔺Avoid Black Bra in Summer
🔺Do Not Wear A Bra While Sleeping.
🔺Do Not Wear An Under Wire Bra Very Often.
🔺Always Cover Ur Chest Completely By Ur Dupatta Or Scarf When U Are Under The Sun.
🔺Use A Deodorant Not An Anti Antiperspirant.
🔺This is A Public Service Msg From Tata Cancer Hospital.
⭕ Pass it 2 All The Ladies You Care For Without Hesitating.
⭕ Awareness is important
⭕ I Care For You
⭕ Plzz Dont Hesitate To inform Other Females Forward 2 Evry Girl On Ur List..!!…
⭕ I’ll Start with u
“As soon as the train started to move, a woman and her husband entered one of the coaches. The woman sat down near the door but the man stood there in tension. He knew that he had general compartment tickets and this was a reservation coach. As he showed his tickets to the ticket collector, he folded his hands.
The ticket collector said – “This is a general ticket. Go to general compartment once the train arrives at the next station else you will have to pay a fine of five hundred rupees.” The husband and wife were going to visit their daughter as she had delivered her first baby, a son. The man worked for a businessman. After a lot of insistence, his master had given him two days of leaves and seven hundred rupees as advance payment. He had tried hard to enter the general compartment but with his wife and the iron trunk, he found it difficult to do so. Helpless, they had to come to the reservation compartment.
The man forwarded a hundred rupees note to the ticket collector saying – “Sir, I could not enter the general compartment since I am with wife and luggage. We will only stand here in the corner. Please allow us for the same. This will be a great favor to us.” “Hundred bucks is nothing. Give me eight hundred rupees else you get down.” Now the wife spoke to the ticket collector- “Sir, eight hundred rupees was not even spent for Guddo’s delivery. We are going to see our grandchild. We are poor people sir, please let us go.” “Then you give me four hundred rupees. I will make the receipt for one person. You both can sit.” The man forwarded two hundred rupees now and said – “Take this sir, don’t make the receipt.”
The ticket collector was irritated by now and in a scolding tone, he said – “No -no, I will have to make two receipts. The Bullet-Train is going to be started in the country soon. It needs one lakh crore of rupees for that. From where will this huge amount of money come? We have to collect it by making receipts. It’s an order from the top management. The Receipt is mandatory. Come on, give me four hundred rupees quickly else next station is arriving soon. Get down and enter the general compartment.” The man gave four hundred rupees to the ticket collector as if it was a piece of his very own heart.
Meanwhile, two passengers who were standing nearby discussed – “What is this bullet train?” “It’s a magic. Without a passport, you can travel in Japan. It is like an aeroplane which will move on the ground and its fare will also be equivalent to airfare. If you even look at it without reservation, you will have to pay a fine. It’s a one lakh crore rupees worth project. Even if the honest King Harishchandra got a tender for it, there will be crores of rupees accumulated in the account. People are saying that “achhe din” will arrive in this bullet train itself.”
People sitting nearby were enjoying this discussion but the poor couple was on the verge of crying. It looked like they were going in the mourning function for their grandson instead of his birth. How will they manage this four hundred rupees shortage! Will they have to ask for money from their daughter’s in-laws for the return journey? This wasn’t a good idea.
Finally, the man said – “I had brought some extra hundred or hundred and fifty rupees. We will walk down to Guddo’s place from the station. We won’t eat in the evening. Two hundred rupees will get compensated this way. On the return journey, we will come by passenger train. It will save hundred rupees though it will take an extra day. My master will shout on me for being late but I will bear that for my grandson. But still, it compensates three hundred rupees only.” The wife said – “We will do one thing, we both were planning to give hundred rupees each to our grandson. Now, we will combine and give hundred only. We are not separate entities. This way, four hundred rupees will get adjusted.” “But to reduce the gift to our grandson…” the man’s eyes filled with tears as he spoke. “Why are you taking it to your heart? When Guddo will come to our place with grandson, we will give extra two hundred rupees.” Saying this, the wife also couldn’t stop her tears from flowing.
As she wiped her tears, she said – “If I meet Modi ji somewhere, I will say – Instead of starting a bullet train costing so much, it will be better if he arranges for additional general quota coaches in every train. This will help people like us to be saved from humiliation who have the ticket. It will also not cut our grandson’s share of hundred rupees.”
Her eyes again brimmed with tears. “You are innocent. We are poor people. We have the right to vote for Modi ji but don’t have the right to suggest him. Don’t cry.” Since ages, the poor section of the society, which travels in general coaches, has been a part of such exploitation. It’s a humble request to all those who are reading this story to share it further. This may probably help Railway Ministry to understand the plight of the general quota passengers.”
As I write on social media about many things, it is quite common for people to assume I am a bold person. I am not really an outgoing extrovert. Not an introvert, but not a social butterfly either.
But many do seem to think I am an angry young woman who will tear their head off if they come near me, or call them out and shame them. No I won’t. Not unless you are creepy or you talk like ‘cute profayal pikchar sissy’.
On the other hand, those that talk to me also don’t really know me unless I make myself emotionally vulnerable to them.
I have seen many guys and spoken to so many of them. If not always, atleast 95% of the time I can understand if somebody is making sexual advancements at me. Not romantic, but purely sexual.
Now if I have to keep aside all my Indian cultural prejudices, arrive at this understanding that it is wrong only to invite strangers for sex talk but if it is someone you know and they are interested in just sexting with you it is not fair to judge them, so based on this I would have to just decline their offer or ignore their double meaning remarks or let them know I don’t like it. (And I have been doing this for quite some time)
But the thing is, many guys think that if a girl is bold and outspoken, they automatically assume she is up for sex, she will find obscene pictures and videos as a joke, she will laugh at sexual innuendos.
There are many guys who are still in 17th century, stereotyping women, slut shaming, body shaming, stalking, torturing and blackmailing women into relationships.
There are also many men who are not like that. They are capable of being nice friends,brothers, boyfriends etc., But even among these men, many still have prejudices against women who they think are bold.
She talks, she writes, she touches really sensitive and taboo topics doesn’t really mean she is up for sex always. She doesn’t have to sleep with twenty men to write about lust or sex. She writes about periods not for you to ask her gross questions about it. She might be a bold person but that doesn’t mean you have to make sexual advancements at her, ask cheap questions, send sex related pictures or videos.
If a girl talks or writes about something it doesn’t mean she is easy or she will let you poke your nose into her bedroom. We don’t really want to listen to you make sly moves and ask us questions about sex or our sex life.
The highlight is, whenever you encounter such advancements they are not always those people who you have just come to know. They would sometimes be the guys you would have known for a long time. In the end, it becomes really awkward to face them. Although they were the ones who did something uncalled for, you would be the one feeling bad to face them.
So please remember,
‘Casual sexual remarks are not tolerable, regardless of who the woman is’
‘If sex is what you need, just tell that directly and ask them if they are interested. (Don’t ask strangers, for you will end up in jail) If they say no, then don’t do it ever again’
‘Bold women are not necessarily sexually available women’
‘Nobody is here on social media to cater to your sexual needs’
‘As much as your sexual needs and desires matter, others’ feeling of not wanting it with you also matters. Learn to respect it’